


Lawyer Selection Guide
Choose the Right Lawyer When Your Ex Is Playing Dirty.
+40 Questions Checklist to help you find the right legal support, covering research to case management.
Choose the Right Lawyer When Your Ex Is Playing Dirty.
+40 Questions Checklist to help you find the right legal support, covering research to case management.
Choose the Right Lawyer When Your Ex Is Playing Dirty.
+40 Questions Checklist to help you find the right legal support, covering research to case management.
This is for you if:
- You’re dealing with a manipulative or high-conflict co-parent who plays dirty in legal situations.
- You feel overwhelmed or unsure about which lawyer will truly understand your situation.
- You want confidence that your legal team will protect your child and your peace of mind.
Not all lawyers understand high-conflict dynamics or the hidden behaviors that often come with custody battles. You need someone who sees beyond appearances, knows the manipulative tactics your ex might use, and builds a strong legal strategy to protect you and your child.
This guide gives you clear, strategic questions to ask, red flags to watch for, and a practical framework to choose the right legal ally — before you invest time, trust, or money.
It’s the resource I wish I had before entering legal proceedings myself.
What you'll learn:
- Must-Ask Interview Questions: Quickly identify whether a lawyer truly understands high-conflict co-parenting cases.
- Red Flags to Avoid: Spot warning signs early before hiring the wrong representation.
- 5-Step Lawyer Selection Framework: A simple process to evaluate, compare, and make confident decisions.
- Printable Evaluation Checklist: Bring clarity and structure to your consultations — so you stay in control during the lawyer search.

Created by Jana Marie Hoffmann
High-Conflict Co-Parenting Coach
I created this guide after realizing how difficult it is to find a lawyer who truly understands the complexity of high-conflict co-parenting. This guide will help you ask the right questions, spot early red flags, and build legal support that truly protects your child.